We experienced some version of this one other evening. This person we hooked up with mentioned, once or twice, exactly how much he likes very petite females. Now, I don’t think I’m “fat” but I’m not “small. ” I’m type of a mfat. We never feel fat.
How come this remark bug me? We wondered. Sometimes, my ex-girlfriend would find other females appealing and i did son’t mind. I’m open towards the proven fact that individuals might have numerous kinds, that simply because some body is into — say — blondes doesn’t suggest they’re not into me personally. But their remark actually remained beside me.
The initial summary that I jumped to was he’s settling for me personally, he can’t obtain a girl he’d really like, therefore he tolerates my not-petite human body. But… which also dis physically attracted for me (and, I’m usually great at reading people. ) Therefore, I wondered, me, why does he keep going on about these thin women he’d rather be fucking if he is attracted to?
And, i do believe the clear answer is… dating women that are thin section of hisI’m wired to get small ladies appealing, when one crosses my path *BAM* I have fired up. Perhaps Not my fault.
But being drawn to someone outsot so thin woman ended up being providing him emotions of shame/creepiness and then he ended up being seeking to mitigate those emotions by reinforcing the narrative andnormal searching women, which means you’re low status. Minimal worth. Unlovable.
