Bondage play is as easy or complex while you like. You don’t need certainly to use any gear in the event that you don’t desire. Bondage could be 100% psychological. As an example: inform your spouse “hold the headboard, and don’t allow go”. Presuming she plays along, she actually is efficiently “tied” to your headboard, nonetheless it provides her a great deal of control, and she does not need certainly to move an excessive amount of into uncharted territory. This is a great first rung on the ladder (though admittedly, one we’ve never utilized).

We used were old ties when we started out, the first thing. People we didn’t like and didn’t care when they go wrecked/ripped/creased/stained. Ties are superb, because they’re versatile and just about everyone posseses a classic tie, or two, lying around. Read More