15, 2020 06:00 AM august

Dear Ellie: I’m a divorced man who ended up being hitched for 25 years and had two kiddies, now inside their late-20s.

After having kids, my ex-wife displayed terrible mood swings, extreme stubbornness, and unreasonable, manipulative, managing, reliant behavior.

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She couldn’t keep a working work nor be friends with many people. Every problem became a quarrel. She ended up being never ever sorry for her behaviour, never forgave nor forgot.

Sooner or later, just what appeared as if a poor psychotic break toward me personally as well as other loved ones, managed to make it impossible in my situation to remain.

My young ones had simply finished college and university. The divorce proceedings had been extremely bitter (her). We attempted difficult to be reasonable and fair. There’s been no contact since we separated.

Unfortuitously, my young ones also provide had no experience of me.

She’d flatly declined opting for counselling/therapy. Throughout our wedding, we saw medical practioners, psychiatrists, psychologists and wedding counsellors.

Their persistent advice: If she’dn’t seek counselling beside me or alone, i ought https://victoria-hearts.org to keep.

But i really couldn’t break up my loved ones and felt some obligation to take care of her. Read More