Defence mechanisms run rampant when you look at the dating globe, and unusual may be the event they help go one’s love life in a positive way. You think of at least five instances in the past five months where you could have struck up a conversation with a guy but didn’t if you’ve felt that your love life has been pretty quiet the past few months, can? Or proposed meeting up with a guy you’ve been texting with in a context that is friendly days on end? My guess is you can, but they are just now realising that people had been possibilities after being blinded by that ever-present defence apparatus. Read More